Parental favoritism: which child is really the favorite? 🧒

Parents love all their children, but some seem to favor one more than the others. A recent study explores the reasons behind this favoritism, revealing surprising trends related to gender and personality.

Researchers from Brigham Young University in the United States conducted a large-scale study to understand the mechanisms of parental favoritism. Their work, published in the journal Psychological Bulletin, shows that this phenomenon is not trivial and can influence mental health and family relationships.

The role of gender in favoritism

Contrary to popular belief, girls are more often favored than boys. Parents, whether fathers or mothers, tend to give more attention and support to their daughters.

This preference could be explained by cultural stereotypes related to docility and sociability often associated with girls. Researchers note that these behaviors are often unconscious and influenced by social norms.

Personality, a determining factor

Conscientious children, meaning responsible and organized, are also more likely to be favored. Parents find them easier to manage and respond more positively to their behaviors.

On the other hand, traits of extraversion, often socially valued, seem less influential within the family context. Researchers emphasize that the ease of managing a child plays a key role in these preferences.

The consequences of favoritism

Less favored children may suffer from weakened mental health and strained family relationships. Researchers stress the importance of treating all children fairly to preserve their well-being.

This awareness can help parents correct often unconscious behaviors. Experts recommend special attention to avoid long-term negative impacts.

The autonomy of the eldest

The eldest often benefit from greater autonomy, likely due to their perceived maturity. However, this freedom does not necessarily translate into preferential treatment.

Researchers insist on the need to understand these dynamics to avoid long-term negative impacts. Equity in the treatment of children remains a challenge for their development.